I remember waking up as a child smelling breakfast cooking in the kitchen and studying in the evening while enjoying the almost distracting fragrance of dinner. I was born in Bangladesh and lived the first half of my life there. I grew up watching my mom and grandma cook various delicious dishes, and there wasn’t a single meal that I didn’t look forward to having. I have had the good fortune to taste and learn about many cuisines after moving to the United States. I started to cook at an early age and thus grew a deeper understanding and appreciation for all the cuisines that I’ve come in contact with. Now, my husband is from South India and I have invested a lot of time and effort to learn to cook his cuisine over the last eight years. I have learned from my in-laws and cookbooks; much of the learning process trial-and-error. My native Bangladeshi background and an exposure to South Indian cooking have helped me to understand South Asian cuisine as a whole.
Here is a little history for you: Bangladesh and India are neighboring countries, geographically speaking. Current day Bangladesh, India, and Pakistan used to be India, which was an English colony up until 1947. India and Pakistan declared independence in 1947 – then modern day India and old Pakistan were born. Back then, Pakistan comprised of East and West Pakistan; West Pakistan was current day Pakistan and East Pakistan was current day Bangladesh. In 1971, Bangladesh won its independence from Pakistan and became the ‘People’s Republic of Bangladesh’. At the end of it all, three countries were formed, but still all shared the same common theme in food.
In 1947, when India and Pakistan were separating, the greater state of Bengal in the Northeast region of India was split in two. Part of it went into modern day Bangladesh (or East Pakistan) and the rest went into the state of Bengal of India. Many people migrated from India to Bangladesh and vice versa because of religious preferences – basically some Muslim folks wanted to migrate to Bangladesh (it is a Muslim country) and some Hindu folks preferred to live in India – this was Partition, and historically, it was quite a bloody affair. Because of this, it is hard to define a proper difference between Bangladeshi food and Bengali food from Bengal. Most of the food and desserts that Bangladeshis and Bengalis cook are very similar. While there aren’t very many differences between Bangladeshi and Bengali food, there are a few slight differences between cuisines from north of the subcontinent to the south.
Generally speaking, all of India and Bangladesh uses the following spices in cooking: onion, ginger, garlic, cilantro, green and red chilies, coriander, cumin, fennel, fenugreek, onion seed, ajwain, cinnamon, cardamom, clove, bay leaf, chili powder, turmeric, and mustard seed. Both countries’ cuisines start by splattering some combination of spices in seed form, sautéing onions, and then proceeding. Depending on what part of India or Bangladesh you go to, you might see different specialty dishes being prepared – that depends on what that area produces or has in plenty. Bangladesh as well as Northwest and South India have fresh and saltwater fish in plenty, thus these areas cook some of the most delicious fish dishes. South India and Southern Bangladesh produce a massive amount of coconut, so naturally, many of the vegetarian and non-vegetarian dishes from these areas use coconut.
I grew up eating a fresh water fish called ‘Hilsha’ that can be found in Bangladesh and the Bengal only – my mother cooked it in a mustard seed gravy, fried it, steamed it with spices, and roasted it with a delicious side of spice roasted onions. She used to cook other fish in coconut gravy and I simply loved it! I was young and didn’t know about the whole wide world out there yet. I used to think Bangladeshi folks were the only ones who cooked fish in coconut gravy. After getting to know my husband’s cuisine more, I came to learn that South India has a very similar coconut gravy recipe for fish!
Continuing with the history a bit more: the Mughal Empire came into India (North India to be precise) from Persia in the 15th century. Apart from contributing some of the most beautiful architecture the world has ever seen, they had also influenced Indian cuisine quite a bit. They introduced the process of baking meat and bread – modern North India is known for tandoori chicken and naan (a flat bread). Mughal cooking uses various nuts, poppy seeds, and yogurt to thicken and flavor gravy; it also uses dried fruits in cooking, such as raisins and dried apricots. This cooking method and use of ingredients are now common in the northern parts of India. Since the Mughals spread in Bangladesh as well, Mughal cuisine influences are always evident in Bangladeshi cooking. I remember looking eagerly forward to eating Mughlai Porota (oil roasted flat bread), naan, kababs,and chicken curry the most. My mother and grandma always use poppy seeds and nuts to cook, so I have come to use those, too.
On the other hand, South Indian cuisines use coconut, lentils, rice, and onion to thicken gravy. They have a special little wonderful fresh spice, it is called a ‘curry leaf’ – it is green in color and extremely fragrant! They also use rice and lentil batter to make various items, such as dosai, idli, aapam, uttappam, idiyappam, adai, etc. These dishes are eaten with mint, onion, tomato chutney as well as any variety of curries. I have personally learned to cook every single one of these items. You’d need a special stone grinder to make the rice/lentil batter – I own one just so I can cook my husband the dishes that he adores to eat. The aroma of sautéing onions with spices and curry leaves brings him out of his home office – he is always ever so excited.
All of India and Bangladesh use the same spices to bring the flavor and creativity to their cuisine. Rice and flat bread are the center of every meal. Flat breads in different forms are very common all throughout the subcontinent; some examples are: roti, chapatti, poori, and paratas. A north Indian person savors eating a delicious dosai made in South India and a South Indian person enjoy eating tandoori naan, chicken prepared in North India. The similarities in all the different regional cuisines unite us, but all the tiny differences make the cuisines unique – both are appreciated, shared, and enjoyed by all Bangladeshis and Indians.







